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The art of memoir by Mary Karr

 


This is a good book. I meet people who ask you how to pick books. This one has a huge reading list at the end that I am temped to upload. But she also helps me to understand Nabokov so I am better able to appreciate him and why I would want to read him and his limits.

There are some memoirs she writes about I feel compelled to read. I want to read Nabokov and Hong Kingston so far. 

Some of them I've read.

Some I'm not as interested. 

I think my first draft is all tell and no show, this is about my 5th try at writing my memoir. I'm going to try and finish it, and then I can rewrite it to death. 

This is a rich book, and I particularly liked Chapter 14 about false voicing and finding her own voice. She usually has short chapters, like Chapter 16 "The Road to hell is paved with exaggeration." I believe that. When I was supervisor in child welfare, and had to edit workers writing, I always crossed out the "very". There is also good editing and knowing when to stop.

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